Friday, October 10, 2014

TWO FACES OF LOVE

so
from past few days m watching movies like
MILI
RAB NE BANA DI JODI
NAMASTEY LONDON
BREAK UP

and these movies made me rethink about the concept of love and marriage
like in rab ne bana di jodi- there cannot be a random man other than the father's fav student (which she met on her wedding day) and they got married.
she didn't loved him, hell she didn't even liked him and was sad (coz her supposed to be lover/husband was dead on her wedding day).she even told his husband that she cant love him ever and if he want he can divorce her.
yet, he agreed and loved her with all her heart and never told her his feeling as it may hurt her.
she asked to join dance classes he permits and changed his whole identity to be the man she could love (i know lill dramatic that how cannot she identify her own husband but ya its a movie, what else do u expect??)
She does fall in love with him u know, and the husband putting a stone on his heart offers her to run away with him(leaving  all-his identity, family property)to start fresh.
and in the end she chooses his HUSBAND.
how can a man love anyone to leave all,sacrifice all just to see a smile on her face???


in Namastey London- the NRI parents trick her daughter to marry a punjabi guy(as they thought they were loosing her to west)upset girl make a wish to leave just after wedding (trick - so that they don't get time to register their marriage)

the happy husband goes to London doing prep for his reception only to find out that he has been ditched and the girl doesn't even consider it a wedding .
The husband then also stays in london and win the heart of her bride, which (off coarse the melodramatic Bollywood) had a boyfriend and wants to marry.
the husband becomes her friend  and she falls in love with him and the D day (wedding of bride with her boyfriend) she leaves the isle to be with his lawful husband.

Lets talk about MILI - the girl got cancer yet she is full of life and on the other hand a rich guy is sad drunk as his parents dead(murder suicide).she taught him to live to love and dies....SAD

BREAK UP- a nice movie showing typical guys and gals in relationship.
the guy don't give a fuck about small things, loves to drink, party and have fun with guys and his Girlfriend too.
the girl does the cooking, picking the clothes, managing the house parties, dinner etc..
after a time she gets fed up and breaks up- not because she doesn't love him but it was hurting too much.
the guy gets it too late, and they never got together again........

these stories made me realize that LOVE like just like any other thing has 2 faces.
its not necessary that the guy u think is the one for you really is the one
sometimes the love can find its way in your heart at the times u dont expect it..........
and love is possible even your heart got broken  or fed up with life.
as for me I HAVE TOTALLY LOST FAITH IN LOVE OR LOVE STORIES.....

but watching after these movies I m  beginning  to think MAY BE there's hope for me after all.....................