micro moments :4

They say that a lonely person is most likely to offer his hands on for help rather than a happy one I disagree Ya i was lonley and sad and grumpy but I helped people that time too But now m happy feel awesome and cheerful all day and I still help people I do it even more often now I talk to people I make them smile It makes me feel good tooo U know Today and yesterday I wished every metro employees happy new year I never have done that before...... I helped that drunk lady , I never talked to her before....
I never expected anything in return But in the evening I went out to eat something, so I went to this shop on which one time I met a guy begging for money but I gv him food instead. As I was standing there and talking to the shopkeeper as I do always the other man standing beside me said " happy new year" I must say I was happy at least there are some people like me. Who have good in there heart See in my opinion good heart doesn't always mean that u donate or keep helping random people, a good heart is the heart which spread happiness and kindness, doesn't mind bringing smile to other people faces Wether they are stranger or not....

TRUST..............................................

So It was a new year's eve My first new year far from home and alone

I went to this club I stood on the top floor and watched as the couples danced together They all looked same yet each was unique in its own way Some were really happy and cheerful and jumping Some were so slow and just grooving and checking out others Some were lost in each other's eyes Some were really good dancers and Some making so silly moves and enjoying that in thier own way.........

That made me think... Each one is a couple eachone think they're gonna end together but how many will actually do that? They were so comfortable with each other so in love But were they really?

as the night passed girls were blooming ....

some were drunk as hell and as i went to the dance floor i looked around

they were falling and guys were trying to catch them, some were just sitting like they cnt move and the guys,...

i dont know some were happy and few were worried...

why would girls do that??

how can they trust someone so much?

trust is a virtue 

but i think they are lucky that they can actually trust someone not like me that i wont beliee in anyone....

but i have my valid reasons...........

but in this case i think too much trust is a BAD thing

only if they wouldn't trust their partner much they would have drunk that much you know...
there was a married couple the wife was so so drunk that his husband and sister were not even able to take her outside.........
i helped them took her and took her downstairs.
but why did it happened?
coz she knew she would be okay with his husband
another couple.. i asked the girlfreind "how much and what did u drink?"
she replied : " i dont know he gave me the drinks and i took it"

WHY WOMEN WHY??
why wnt u ask what the hell u r taking?
well i just wish that people put their trust in right people..............

O captain my captain !!!

its amazing how small movies can change your thinking, can change what you feeling...........
i watched today a movie named #dead poets society
and OMG am i amazed enough............

the phrases the dialogues and the expressions so simple yet so real......
the passion the emotions the weird thing people do it was all so so unlike the fiction....
how the young minds feel about the future
how everything affects them
how they are excited by a simple speech
how they are shy and not accustomed to the change around them
there's so much you can learn from it.................

and as a viewer i was a part of it too .............
i wanted to feel the breeze in my hairs
wanted to run across the fields
and jump into river
and oh my the happiness on the faces when someone discover what exactly they want to do with their life..........
the clash between the parents and the kids about the safe future..........
the one who never speaks or come forward stood up for his wish.........

there are many things to inspire from
" Gather ye rosebuds while ye may,

Old time is still a-flying;

And this same flower that smiles today

Tomorrow will be dying."

its so beautifull.........

i cannot believe that a simple movie can make you feel so so deep.....

micro moments : 3

So Today's metro is not that stuffed But the reason is am 2 damn hours late for my office. But its worth it The moment I entered I sweeped the seats hoping to find an empty one but no luck.. So I stood in front of the ladies seat just then a guy left his seat and the man behind me told me to sit I turned and saw he was 50-60 years old, I said no you sit But he said its k u sit but I said please I insist you sit then he sat down finally... How come some people are so polite? He deseeved that seat then also he wanted a girl to sit how nice. ....

micro moments : 2

·         So yesterday I was in metro coming back home As many people already know that its like cotton balls stuffed in pillows.. There are two stations at which u really have to survive or else u will be either thrown out or cnt get out... So at yamuna bank a flush of people entered and like any other day two men started to fight over space and pushing.it didn't end and they started to pass remarks, everyone was just watching them but then a guy said " are bas ho gya bhai bahut khoon jal gya"(stop it u have burned ur blood more than enough) And all people surrounding them started laughing including the men fighting.

Micro Moments : 1

so the other day i was coming from a function and i was not getting any convenience half way ...
after sometime a rickshaw came and he agreed to take me but he asked for 40rs. which i thought was way more but i agreed as it was getting late...
 10 minutes passed but i was still far away from my home I realised that my home is actually far and the fare is more than fine- this made me feel guilty that I  was getting frustrated without any reason.

SO when i reached home i gave him 30 rs and said please wait so that I can get more change from my house, and i returned with 10 rs and a chips packet: i gave it to him and said " bhiaya ye isliye ki apne mujhse galat paise nai mange, Thank you"( this is for you as You didnt asked for extra bucks, Thanks).

And his face:  i could never forget the smile and the happiness i saw on his face....
his eyes light up and he started laughing and kept the packet.

and i never felt that GOOD in a long long time.........

this made me realise that happiness can be shared and u cn be happy by giving happiness to others......

after that i started noticing & focusing that what i can do for others to make them happy.......

• I bought snacks for all the labors in my factory
• I bought a grammar book for my junior staff ( he wanted to learn english)

till now thats it......

  

but i make sure that i do something good each day- 

 so I always offer my seat in Metro to someone who needs it, nomatter how tired i am ........

and I

hope to continue......

Micro Moments :

hi there!!

 this blog was supposed to say something important, atleast what i made it for
But i couldn't find a big - huge - magnanimous- humoungous  topic to write..........
Hence it went dull.
But from past few months my perspective of  life has changed

i started observing more and reacting less.
and i realised that world is filled with people who are already a fuss about the BIG ISSUES..:P
what's lacked is small and lill moments which no one has time for....

SO
In this series MICRO MOMENTS i am going to share small things that matter, small acts and my daily experience.

I hope people who read this will actually care and know that humanity is still left somewhere, we just need to find it..........

http://thevoiceofastonishingme.blogspot.in/2013/11/humanity.html